CHECK MARKS ADD UP

So if you have ever been hooking up with several guys, no not all at once,  lol but one on one different days.   I have found i can enjoy each individually for what they are what they bring to my table.  When you stand them each side by side  the experiences that is..  it calls to make an assessment or a comparison because after all there can only be ONE. Or at least that is what we have come to know is the norm or that feels right. 
It all comes down to what is important for you .. the list,  the criteria.  the check marks  add up.  The add up may just surprise you.  It definitely did for me!   In a nutshell it showed me that there are a lot of guys that may have sum good things going but are lacking in other areas.  and although it seems it should check and balance out..  Its not quite the point the point becomes is is worth it to work with these guys and the things they are lacking to build something solid.  or its the task too much work?  Yes its easy to take the guy that adds up across the board.. but something is lacking there as well because other wise you should have already been locked down by that right?...
Going to see my number 1 slot..tonight and spend some time with him.. ill get back to you let this all marinate.